When it comes to handling money as a couple, there are as many approaches as there are types of relationships. Some people maintain their independance, while others essentially evolve into the same person, becoming so similar that you’re sure one day they’ll show up as a single blob, having totally morphed into one another. Neither is necessarily happier or better …
There Are More Important Things Than Money
I had planned to settle onto my couch this evening and write a post about my travel plans to Paris. I wanted to talk about how much the flight had cost, when I was planning on going and where I was planning on staying. It was going to be a post about an adventure. Now, that unwritten blog post seems …
Money and Relationships: Combining Finances
Managing money is an evolving task. It requires you to constantly make adjustments, to learn, and to grow. Managing your money with a spouse is like adding a third dimension of difficulty to the financial equation. It’s takes ninja skills. Not only do you need to handle yourself, adjust your expectations, and avoid the temptation to go over budget, but …
Money & Relationships: Joint Accounts
Money and relationships is a huge, broad topic with many different aspects. One of those aspects is how to appropriately combine money, or whether or not you should combine money and accounts. Figuring out how to combine money successfully, can be the difference between a harmonious financial existence, and a total freaking nightmare. That said, it’s totally doable to combine …
How Much Does it Cost to Get Married? Part 2
A few weeks ago I wrote about how I managed to save so much money on my wedding. I DIYed a lot, called in many favours, and was thankfully able to have a wonderful, beautiful, and fun wedding on a tiny budget. I didn’t cover everything in the last post, so here are the rest of the details on how …
Do I Need Life Insurance Now that I’m Married?
I’ve been married for almost a week, and besides the strangeness of seeing a last name pop up on Facebook, and the hassle of switching all of my email accounts over, nothing has really changed for me. I feel a little different, like the runner’s high I used to get from completing a race or setting a new PR, but …
How Much Does it Cost to Get Married? Part 1
This is Part 1 of a 2 Part Series. Read Part 2 Here. In case I haven’t written about this topic enough already, I had a wedding this weekend. It was a gorgeous day and everything went pretty much perfectly. The sun shone, the bugs and rain stayed away, and my hair held up in the humidity until after dark. …
I’m Taking His Last Name
For the purposes of this discussion, let’s say that my fiancé’s name is Homer Simpson. After my fiancé and I got engaged, we started to plan the wedding. We planned where it would be, who would marry us, what we would eat. We planned our honeymoon, picked our wedding rings, and chose our wedding party. It all came very naturally …
Life Updates & Call for Guest Posts
I was planning on writing this post on the weekend, but life, including the Relay for Life, got away from me. I know this blog has been more on the personal side lately, but I had a lot of highly personal, highly important things going on in my life right now, so, naturally, I want to share them. First off, …
I Promise Not to Love You Unconditionally
My fiancé and I wrote our vows over the weekend. We didn’t write them separately, because I think that’s a huge amount of pressure and stress to put on someone on a day that is bound to be pressure and stress filled anyway. His sister is our officiant, so we sat down with the script that she typically uses and …
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